Break Free From the “When/Then” Trap: Spark Change Now! #Personaldevelopment #CareerCoaching #Leadership
By Monica Brown
Do you ever find yourself stuck in a holding pattern, waiting for that perfect moment to launch yourself forward? Maybe it sounds like this: “When I get that promotion, then I’ll finally feel successful.” Or, “When I find my purpose, then I’ll start living a fulfilling life.”
As a coach specialising in career development, life transformation, public speaking, and leadership, I see this “when/then” syndrome all too often. It’s a subtle trap that keeps us stuck, delaying happiness and hindering our potential. But here’s the unspoken truth: change doesn’t have to wait.
The “When/Then” Trap: A Triple Threat
Delayed Happiness: Waiting for some future milestone keeps happiness at arm’s length. We forget that happiness is a journey, not a destination.
Procrastination Powerhouse: “When/then” becomes a justification to put things off. We get stuck in a cycle of planning and never actually taking action.
Brainpower Blocker: The brain thrives on action and results, not just future expectations. The “when/then” mindset keeps us stuck in a loop, limiting our brain’s ability to learn and grow.
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Unlock Your Potential: Take Action Now!
I’ve helped countless individuals break free from the “when/then” trap and ignite the change they desire. Here are a few key strategies:
Shift Your Focus: Instead of “when/then,” think “what/now?” Identify a small, actionable step you can take today to move closer to your goals.
Celebrate Mini-Victories: Acknowledge and reward yourself for progress, not just the final achievement. Every step forward is a win!
Embrace the Power of “And”: You can be happy and fulfilled while simultaneously working towards bigger goals. Enjoy the journey!
Ready to Spark Change Today?
If you’re ready to break free from the “when/then” trap and unlock your full potential, I’d love to help! I offer a variety of coaching programs designed to empower you to achieve your career goals, live a more fulfilling life, become a confident public speaker, or develop your leadership skills.
Sign up for a free consultation to discuss your unique needs and explore how I can help you turn your “when/then” into a resounding “NOW!”
Share this article with your network and let’s inspire each other to take action! Let’s make 2025 the year of powerful transformations.
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Monica Brown, Content Director for CRW News and CRW Radio, Changemaker, Activist And Social Entrepreneur
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