Swiping Right and Avoiding Swipe Left: Modern Dating Etiquette #DatingAfter40
By Monica Brown
Dating in the digital age can be a minefield of etiquette challenges. From the art of texting to the dreaded ghosting, navigating the complexities of modern dating requires a delicate touch.
Here’s a guide to help you navigate the waters with grace and humour:
Texting Etiquette:
Timing Matters: Pay attention to response times. If someone takes days to respond, they might not be as invested as you are.
Don’t Overthink It: While it’s important to be respectful, don’t overanalyse every text. A simple “Hello” or “How are you?” is often enough to start a conversation.
Avoid Ghosting: If you’re not interested, be polite and let the other person know. Ghosting is rude and can hurt feelings.
The Ghosting Dilemma:
- Be Honest: If you’re not interested, be upfront and let the other person know. It’s better than disappearing without a trace.
- Understand Their Perspective: Sometimes, people ghost due to fear of rejection or lack of emotional maturity.
- Don’t Take It Personally: If someone ghosts you, it’s likely more about them than you.
Other Modern Dating Trends:
- Breadcrumbing: Be wary of people who keep you interested with occasional contact but never commit.
- Catfishing: Protect yourself from fake profiles by verifying information and being cautious about sharing personal details.
- The Swipe Culture: Remember, it’s okay to swipe left on someone you’re not interested in. Don’t feel pressured to match with everyone.
Dating in the digital age can be both exciting and frustrating. By understanding and following these etiquette guidelines, you can navigate the complexities of modern dating with confidence and grace.
#DatingEtiquette #ModernLove #Relationships #DatingAfter40
Monica Brown, Changemaker, Activist And Social Entrepreneur, CRW NEWS Freelance Columnist
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